I guess as to whether or not Mildred is really a man (but not in the novel, in his real life) is still debated, I tend to think yes, but regardless of his sexual orientation, as a coming of age novel, for me it's one of the best. As in most of them and there are certain parallels with Bukowski's Ham on Rye, alienation and misery feature large.
As he grows up, the realisation that life and love are imperfect, sometimes our dreams aren't realised not matter how hard we wish them to and that we fall in love with the wrong people however much we wish not to. It's a frustrating and bleak read at times, but very real and honest.
I hope Johannes doesn't read this before he finishes it.
On the subject of closeted homosexuals; started reading Painted Shadow by Carole Seymour Jones; Biography of Vivienne Eliot, first wife of T. S. Eliot.
Again hotly debated, but for me again it's a yes. Pretty tragic, unhappy life ends up quite soon after her marriage in an affair with Bertrand Russell (yes the little sexpot strikes again!). What a cover up her admission in a mental hospital seems to be (so far) between Eliot and her brother.