People still say that? You'd think it's almost become common now. Carol and I "met" through email over the old smog.net, and this was back in 97, 98, so you can imagine it seemed weird to a lot more people back then. But no one has freaked out over it. Not to our faces anyway. Then again, this is Los Angeles, so I suppose there are truly weird ways we could have met.
yes, they do still say that. but on the other hand, plenty of people have been totally supportive and positive.
as for myspace and the internet: it's like that old cliche about guns - it's not the internet that's dangerous; it's the people who use it. in everyday life in the 'real world' i have to wade through a ton of shit to find the good stuff, with both people and art. but i live in one tiny city in one tiny part of the world, and the internet operates in the same way for me - i visit/occupy one tiny part of it. all it takes is finding one good site, and then you're linked to a bunch of other good sites and through them to others, and so on (which is the point i made in that essay i wrote about the impact of the digital age on the small press scene).
and as for the creepy questions myspace asks of underage children: myspace does not come uninvited into your house and prey on your kids. there are plenty of other media forms asking kids creepy questions about their sexuality - magazines, tv programs, movies. there is no way to absolutely shield children from any of these media, so all a parent can do is teach their kids how to navigate safely through them.
i have a myspace page (although i rarely use it now), jordan has one. plenty of awesome, interesting, nice people i know have one. i don't go looking for self-absorbed, shallow myspace users, and anyone who has approached me who seems that way can be/has been deleted out of my internet realm with the mere click of a button. if only the 'real world' worked the same way!