I'm hesitating to enter the fray here, but this is a question that interests me. How does anyone decide a novel, poem, story, play, symphony, painting is OK or good or great? My grandfather used to say de gustibus non est disputandum--you can't argue about taste. You like spinach, I don't, so what are we going to do? Have a fight about whether or why spinach is good?
So switch the question to the arts: you like Beethoven, I like Madonna--what now? Now, one can make arguments about musical complexity, "depth," etc but now we are into questions of "value" and also perhaps knowledge of the history of music. If you know more about music, should your judgment be considered of greater value? If you know nothing about astrophysics, you wouldn't be taken seriously if you start making statements about cosmology.
So I'm divided about this. I think if you know little about literature--or in this case ALL of Bukowski's writing--your ideas about Women may be said to have less power as arguments than someone who does know more about these things.
And finally, why do we care? When we argue about whether one work of art is "better" than another, perhaps we are really arguing about what we value and think is important which connects with questions of "morality," "right and wrong" how we should live our lives, and a bunch of other stuff. This is perhaps why these arguments are more highly charged than whether or not you like spinach. Or we can just forget the whole thing and agree that in the scheme of things, it doesn't matter at all whether you like Beethoven or Madonna, Women or Post Office or Hamlet or Brothers Karamazov or the DaVinci Code.