this is a longer story and more or less starts with a letter by Bukowski to Carl Weissner ... Maybe the mods would be so kind to find that thread and link to it?
Well if you like:
Letter:
http://savebukowski.org/manuscripts/displaymanuscript.php?show=letter1979-01-15-weissner.jpg
Women changes:
https://bukowskiforum.com/index.php?threads/women.1968/